We're gonna go over four signals that she might give you  when she secretly wants you keep in mind  that if she doesn't show any of these  signs, it doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't  like you.  She might just be really  non-expressive in general. But if she does do any of these there's  a solid chance she finds you attractive.  I could just help one of you guys  develop the skill of being able to tell  how a girl is feeling towards you.



1. Shit tests :


  Basically, it's when a woman  will test your frame  by teasing you giving you an obstacle  basically giving you shit. An example can be something like  you know you're pretty cute too bad,  you're a bit short. She's letting you  know she finds you cute but she also  throws in a test  right. She's seeing how you respond to  her calling you short. If you're a low value real sensitive guy  then you might be really offended and  start getting angry  in which case she'll know that was a  complete mistake.  But if you keep your cool reply with  something like ' oh! it's alright ' with the same height  lying down with a grin  then not only will you have passed her test. It'll make you seem twice as  attractive now. The reason women do this is because they have to figure out for themselves  how confident you actually are how,  tight  your frame is.  But they can't just ask you, 'hey are you  confident,obviously ' since you're able to just lie. So instead  they hit you with a test like this  to see how you respond when she's being  difficult. 

  A girl is constantly giving you these  kinds of tests, whether it's teasing you,  giving you soft  rejections while  having flirty body language. Overall just  giving you crap,  there's a really good chance she likes  you. A woman to be giving these tests to you  one after the other in rapid fire succession. If she's doing that it's a pretty big  red flag to be honest,  normally how it'll happen is she'll give  you a test  and if you can pass that then she'll be  cool again for a few hours  before she throws another test later.   So, she wants to make sure that she's  making the right choice  with these tests and a women will never stop  testing you even when you two are  married because she's always gonna want  to make sure  that you're on your a-game as a man. So next time, you're not sure whether a girl  who constantly throws tests at you  likes you chances are she does.


2. She makes excuses to see you:


   A years ago, i remember a classmate of mine, catherine would always invite me to hang out with  her concerts dinners things like that  and originally i never suspected that  she was into me. Our interactions were friendly but i  never got the sense she was flirting  with me.  One day, i get a text from her best friend alexandria, ' hey catherine's.

 She  just invite me to hang out. She'd go out of her way to see me even  when there was no reason for her to. For example, one time she drove three  hours just to see me in philly  when i casually mentioned i was going to  spend the weekend there. Another example was when we were at a  big hangout session  with a bunch of her friends as well  towards the end right as we were about  to go to the after party. I had to leave from the group real quick  to run an errand. She was real sad i had to leave but i  told her i'd meet up with her again  after i dropped off my package an hour. That was definitely a powerful  learning lesson for me  to recognize this as a sign of  attraction.


3. She's nervous or awkward  around you :  


    You probably remember a time when you  were around a girl you really liked  and you wanted to be smooth but instead  you were awkward. You see when we're  around someone we're really attracted to  it's a very human thing to be awkward  because you're nervous. You want to impress them.  You know what i  mean how as soon as you like someone, our charisma, our wit, our fun, casual, nature  just goes right out the window and this  new strange awkward fumbling person  shows up  so it makes sense that women do the same  thing maybe she'll be overly shy or  too energetic around you only it can go  both ways depending on her personality  and whether she's an introvert or an  extrovert. Remember the core of this awkward behavior comes  from nervousness  and there's a difference between her  being uninterested  and her being nervous, lots of guys don't  know this. For example,  I used to think that if a girl didn't  talk to me a lot she simply didn't like  me  it wasn't until later on that i realized  some of them might have simply been  nervous  again some girls might not talk at all. If they're nervous other girls talk too  much when they're nervous  you just have to know who you're dealing  with.  

  When you do suspect that a girl  likes you  but she's just too nervous to come out  of her shell.  You can make her feel more  comfortable so she opens up to you more  by being more friendly and continuing  the conversation without being threatening  and normally. There are some body  language tells  that a woman will show when she is  nervous around you. For example, if she's constantly playing  with her hair it could mean she's  nervous and she's using that as a  pacifying action to soothe the anxiety. Another one could be constantly rubbing  squeezing  or interlacing her hands together.  There's even some research to suggest  that nervous people  tend to blink a lot so if she's doing  that as well that's a possible sign of  nervousness. You should look for these signs  in clusters not individually  if she's doing a bunch of these things  simultaneously she's probably nervous  around due to some  underlying attraction. 



4. She eats less in front of you :

   This is  kind of random and a lesser known one but i remember one time, i was on a date with some girl. I suggested we get these mini chicken  buns by union square.  She agreed we met up to introduce  ourselves and ordered food  and i noticed that once the food hit the  table she was eating pretty slow  and she wasn't eating very much at all  like maybe two or three of those buns  when i was easily putting away like six  or seven. I didn't comment on it at the time but  after a few more dates and we started  getting physical, she told me the reason she ate less in  front of me on our first date  was because she liked me and didn't want  to seem unladylike. Now personally i don't care how a girl  eats in front of me i actually think,  it's pretty cute when a girl goes in on  some wings so  i told her that but throughout the years  i've noticed this pattern emerge again  over and over with girls that are into  me how they often times eat less in  front of me  the first few times we hang out and i  guess from a girl's standpoint it makes  sense  maybe they want to seem more feminine or  she feels it makes her look more  attractive, just like how some guys want to seem  more masculine when they're around girls.