Every day the average young man spends more time thinking about girls than he does thinking about his career and his health. Today, I'm gonna lay out for you guys some secrets on how attraction works for girls, once you understand these three psychological secrets of attraction. You'll much better understand exactly how to push the right buttons when trying to attract your dream girl as well as increase your overall level of attractiveness.
1. Woman want to be desired :
You see attraction for girls works on both the psychological level as well as the physical level. When you display things like social status girls will be affected on the psychological level meaning that she understands that you'd logically make a good partner for her. When you show your desire to a woman however you affect her on the physical level which ignites her sexual arousal. My experience definitely aligned with this finding human beings, all have a bit of narcissism within us. It helps us maintain our self-image and confidence. This narcissistic trade especially plays a role in attraction for women women get turned on by being wanted by being desired. The more physical assertiveness, you pursue a girl with the more aroused she becomes, even if she wasn't attracted to you in the first place showing her your desire in this bold aggressive sexually straightforward way will trigger her attraction and turn her on to the point where she changes her mind and wants to get to know you.
For example, I found that if you took a guy who normally would just stand and chat with a girl and then have him put his arm around her before chatting with her even though a lot of the time his physical escalation would get rejected. A lot of the girls would also become aroused it's pretty much a biological response that they have little control over just like how US guys can't control becoming aroused. When we see a hot girl, we know how to show desire to a woman on an individual level. I want to apply the concept in general a man who loves women is loved by women when you love women in general you will naturally have a radiance a confident charisma around you. A man who tries to highlight a woman's desirability and shows appreciation for her inner beauty regardless of how sexually attractive. We'll always be surrounded by girls and the ones he's not attracted to will gladly introduce him to their hot friends by being generous with his time and giving all women attention. He will naturally invite them into his life and then once he finds the one he really likes, he'll be able to seduce her by showing his desire.
2. Suncommunication :
The second secret of attraction has to do with how men and women communicate. It's that when it comes to attraction girls focus more on what's being said below the surface or what's being sub communicated rather than the literal words or the surface level communication. This is actually a difference between guys and girls guys tend to be very straightforward with our communication to girls, so they tend to take what's being said for face value. Girls on the other hand actually focus less on what guys literally say instead they focus more on the context of why he said that and what it sub communicates about his status.
3. Social Proof :
The third and final psychological secret of Attraction is the idea of social proof. Social proof is pretty much how people perceive you based on who you hang out with or associate yourself. When there are guys even better-looking and richer than him who don't have as many options, it's because of the principle of social proof even though these girls don't know personally. They can see that every other girl in the stadium is screaming his name saying things like 'I love you' , these girls can see that has extremely powerful social proof. So they'll in turn find him attractive remember girls want what other girls want so when she can see that other girls really want to be with a guy she's gonna want to be with him too.
Now, I know what you're thinking gentleman's guide. A lot of guys are scared of but it's actually something that you can use to your advantage by turning it into social proof, I mean think about it even if an attractive girl just wants to be friends. She's still willing to joke around laugh and have fun with you and what do you think all the other nearby hot girls are going to think . They're gonna think that you must be a cool guy, if you're with a pretty girl that's willing to have fun with you even as friends that in turn will make them more willing to talk flirt and dance with you as well so make sure that you're someone who can make friends easily even with girls make sure to not judge others and to treat everyone with respect. Because the more people that like you the more attractive you'll be a woman who you don't know yet one of my favorite and most powerful methods to apply social proof to a girl. I'm interested in is to make friends with her friends the determined psychology called triadic closure, it's a social networking concept that pretty much says that when two people like each other.
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