Today, I'm  gonna  give you an insight on five simple ways  you can increase your overall  attractiveness. I chose this specific  list because everything i'm about to  mention on this list are things that can  be applied by anyone regardless of how  inexperienced you are in dating or  relationships.

1. Rethink Rejection :



  You need to  implement is to rethink how you treat  rejection  way, too many guys take rejection  personally as some sort of indicator  about how unattractive they are  instead learn to treat rejection as the  blessing in disguise that it really is  because the simple and unavoidable fact of life  is that not every girl will be into you  again this is simply life.  But most of the time, the reason will  have nothing at all to do with you and  i'll tell you this from personal  experience, a rejection is so much better  than a girl leading you on and wasting  your time  like you're following a trail of  breadcrumbs that lead to nowhere,  when a girl rejects you what you should  interpret that is  your value is wasted on me. You should  give it to someone else instead  and again you should welcome that  honesty every time over having your time  wasted. When you react badly to a  rejection  say you, start getting angry or jealous, you show her just how weak you are that  you're low value. 


2. Don't Self Sabotage :



  You ou need to  implement is to learn to get comfortable  in sexual settings and to not  self-sabotage yourself. Most men find their way into the  seduction community because they're  either alienated from women or have had  bad experiences. This is something you will have to overcome. some women will do everything in their  power to make your life miserable  because they're miserable themselves. Don't chase girls who you know are bad  investments, don't try to fix broken situations  they're usually broken for a reason  even if you only figure it out years. Women judge how successful a man is with  women based on a man's expectations. If  you're believing and expecting the worst  in woman, she'll read that as you being a  bitter and lonely person  if you expect better then she'll see you  as a man whose expectations are worth  meeting.  So, don't self-sabotage your success by  letting your past baggage, cloud your  mindset or else you'll really be in a  downward spiral.

3. Cultivate your options :



   This is absolutely essential in today's  dating world because the truth is most  attractive women these days have lots of  options even if they're not single  between online dating apps, men sliding  into their dms on social media,  to guys cat calling her when she walks  down the street.  She knows there won't be  a shortage of guys to give her attention  and the thing is the high value guys  that these attractive women deal with  have options too. A lot of guys become disillusioned  and cynical with this dating reality  they feel that the dating pool is overly  narcissistic and to an extent, they have  a point many people nowadays treat their  romantic prospects as disposable. They burn or ghost people that they're  not into  this is simply a reality that you'll  need to be prepared for and the best way  to prepare for the game is to learn how  to play the game.  After all, it's a lot  easier to say to yourself this girl is  being disrespectful you. I'm  gonna spend my  time with someone who actually values me, when you have options.  Now having options doesn't mean you need  to be sleeping or dating, four to five  women at once, it just means that you  don't put all your eggs in one basket  that you're at least willing to talk to  a few girls here and there so that  you'll be way less needy.

4. Practicing Stoicism :


   Stoicism is a tool that's extremely  underutilized in the dating game, see when you overreact to something like  a rejection or a girl taking a day to  respond to your texts it makes you look weak.  Because it is weak, it demonstrates to her and to other  people that you have a victim mentality  that you don't have self-discipline to  respond appropriately to situations. If you want to keep a cool head in  dating which is pivotal in being smooth. Stoicism will help you greatly  basically adopting the attitude that  nothing is too big of a deal and  embracing the pain and hardship of  putting yourself out there and being  willing to embrace the grind without complaining. This takes mental strength something  that's inherently attractive to women  it's actually far better in fact to  under react and undersell your emotions  what women look for, in men is their  reaction to things especially herself. Let go have fun and be  okay with the outcome, under this stoic lens dating becomes  easy. 

5. Getting comfortable enforcing boundaries :



   Boundaries can be a tricky thing because  too much makes a relationship all about  control and that never ends well while  on the other hand no boundaries also  never ends well. Because your needs won't  be met the secret is knowing what you  value in the opposite sex and knowing  what you can't tolerate self-awareness, otherwise you'll constantly find  yourself unable to handle simple  situations with a girl such as when she  tests you you have to know what, you're  willing to take a stand. For example,  if she's texting on her phone constantly  when you're on a date with her and it's  bothering you speak up call her out on,  it not in an aggressive way but in a  self-assured way make it clear that  something's bothering you. But in a  friendly way not an accusatory way so  that the other person can save some face this way. if the behavior continues you  know it's either deliberate or a symptom  of some kind of character flaw. Finally, when you do make a decision  that someone has crossed a line  act decisively unapologetically and do  not back down until there's at least  been a serious correction and some  accountability women do not like it when  men are pushovers because if you can't  stand up to her, you won't stand up for her either  a great resource on reinforcing  boundaries.